We all have a need to help others. The proof of that is the natural joy we experience when we do help others. And so we want to give help and ask for help based upon that need to help rather than any sense of obligation or rewards and punishments. But there are a lot of things within and outside of our control which prevent us from acting upon our need to help.
KindCommunication.org is a project by a close friend of Wiki World Order, Alex Leach. WWO fully supports the study, practice, and teaching of non-violent communication as one of the core solutions which already exists.